Sealed with a kiss: Michael Keogh celebrates with Evan Murphy on the day of the ‘Yes’ vote in the marriage equality referendum. Below, their wedding day
WHEN Michael Keogh from Caherline, Caherconlish, boarded a plane for Gran Canaria little did he know that his partner Evan Murphy, from Shanakiel, Cork, had had a quiet word with his parents Mary and Patrick before they left.
After receiving their blessing, Evan got down on one knee, popped the question and produced a beautiful silver ring.
Romance was a slow-burner for Michael, 32, and Evan, 29, who started chatting online five years ago, and met a few months later for their first date.
Michael joked that his patience and persistence paid off, as early in their relationship Evan was busy pounding the pavements and going door-to-door campaigning for David Norris to be President.
“He played hard to get for a long while,” he laughed.
“He was just totally engrossed in David Norris’ campaign, as he is so into politics, so I had to take a backseat for a while.”
David lost his race, and Michael regained Evan. He moved from the Rebel County up to the Treaty City in March.
For their first date they went to see a horror film in Cork around Halloween, and as they say, the rest is history.
Except not quite. A photo of the couple kissing after the landmark marriage equality referendum was emblazoned across many national front pages.
It was a powerful image, and their day was made all the more special given that the State now recognised them as husband and husband.
They wed in a deconsecrated church in Cork city – St Peter’s church on North Main Street – which is still used to host weddings, and other special events.
“It was just fabulous. It was closed for some time, but we held out until it opened again, we got it and we were one of the first same-sex marriages held there since it re-opened.”
A touching four-minute video of the first half of their day, captured by their videographer, has now received more than 6,000 views online.
“I think it has just touched people’s hearts, after the referendum last year,” he added.
It was a day filled with many special and personal touches, and many celebrations leading up to the big day.
Michael, who works in the Patrick Street branch of Bank of Ireland in Cork, and was with the Limerick branch at 125 O’Connell Street for eight years prior, had a send-off party thrown in his honour by his colleagues before their special day.
Not only did they have five groomsmen, two of whom are Michael’s brothers, they also made three groomswomen, including Michael’s sister Sarah and Evan’s sister Jessica.
One of their groomsmen, Graham McDermott, even walked down Patrick Street dressed as a drag queen after entering a competition to help them win a wedding, and made the final.
A vintage bus hired for the wedding party was another added surprise for their close friends and family.
“We just fell in love with it when we saw it, it’s so different. We had a budget, but we blew it. We had great intentions of sticking to a budget, but then you see something you love and feel you have to have it.”
For Evan, his favourite part of the day was signing the register, and for Michael, it was walking in the door of St Peter’s to their favourite song – One Direction’s Little Things – and seeing everyone.
“The ceremony and the speeches were the most emotional and also they included some laughs too. Looking back you realise it’s not all about the frills. We had an amazing day but in the weeks leading up you do get so engrossed in how it’s all going to look.
“One of the greatest challenges was letting go and leaving other people do things for you. You need to utilise your wedding party. Our day was everything we expected and more, from start to finish.”
Venue: St Peter's Church, North Main Street, Cork, and the Radisson Blu, Little Island, Cork
Photographer: Darren Forde
Videographer: Studio Plus Video Production
Groomswomen dresses: The Ivory Rose, Passage West, Cork
Grooms’ & groomsmens' suits: Tom Murphy Menswear, Patrick Street, Cork
Hair: Andrew Cronin & Eilisha Copper
Make-up: Ava Kapello
They ate: Fillet of beef and seabass
First dance song: A Thousand Years by Christina Perri
Band: Gemma & The Jets
DJ: Patrick Croke
Car hire: Mackey Coaches
Guest list: 220
Honeymoon: San Francisco, Las Vegas and New York
Your big day:
If you would like to see your wedding or a love story dating back decades featured on this page, please e-mail firstname.lastname@example.org with some details.
Alternatively, if you would like to advertise announcements of engagements, weddings or anniversaries contact the office on 061 214521.